Top 10 Networking Tips For Established Bloggers (300+) – B2S/B2B Week 3

by kludgymom on September 26, 2010

If you’re an established blogger – and I’m defining that as having 300 or more followers – then this post is for you.

I welcome discussion and feedback on this because maybe my model doesn’t work for everyone, but it seems to be the best allocation of my time and energy.

 If you took a peek at the other posts for new and growing bloggers, you saw that I did a picture model of how they should spend their time to get the best bang for their buck. I broke it down into 3 categories: blog networks, commenting, and social media.

What I do for networking now is almost the opposite of what I was doing as a new blogger. The picture below represents how I allocate my time – from least amount of time to largest.

As I grow, I just don’t have time to do all the things I *could* be doing on my blog with the same level of focus or energy that I did when my blog was smaller.  Now, I spend very little time on blog networks, and the majority of my time on social media (Twitter, primarily). Commenting on other blogs is sort of a constant, isn’t it?

Less time on blog networks, more on social media!

So here are my tips on networking as an established blogger. If you’re one too, I would love to hear yours.

1. Focus networking on one-to-many.  Since time is short, I’m trying to come up with ways to network with groups of people at a time and engage them on my blog. This challenge is a perfect example of that. I’m interacting with dozens of people at once. This provides a value to them, and it actually makes my life a little easier!

2. Spend less time on blog networks. I find now that I have almost NO time to spend on blog networks. I still read all of the posts by SITS and Lady Bloggers, and follow several other networks on Twitter, but I’m not active in their forums like I once was.  At this time, the return I get is not worth the effort it requires.

3. Encourage your followers to help you network.  I’m finding that my loyal followers are more than happy to help me retweet posts, spread the word about a giveaway, or participate in events. Their referrals are my best source of new traffic. This is the beauty of blogging: it’s okay to reap the rewards of all the hard work we put in as newer bloggers!

4. Be a leader. I think one of the best ways to be perceived as an established blogger is to act like one. Established bloggers don’t participate in every event that comes along. They create their own events. Whether it’s a challenge like this, sharing information, a collaborative contest, or coming up with your own awesome meme, leadership in blogging helps garner respect.

5. For every follower, read .5 blogs or less. I know, you can’t really read half a blog! But you also can’t read the blogs of every person who follows you. It’s just.too.much, right? Recently, I spent an hour paring my list down to 100 blogs. It’s much more manageable now. Yes, I may lose readers. But after a certain point, it becomes impossible to visit every blog.

6.  Pay it forward. There are bloggers “ahead” of us who helped us along the way. Whether it was allowing us to guest post, giving a shout out, or helping with a technical issue..other people have had a hand in our success. I believe one of the best ways to network at this stage is to pay it forward. Help a less experienced blogger in some way. They will repay you forever with retweets and support :) .

7. Continue to guest post. While I think guest posting is great for everyone, it’s been particularly effective for me as I’ve become more established. It allows me to reach new audiences groups at a time instead of one person at a time. My blog is large enough now that when people visit me after guest posting, I appear to have some “street cred.” I’m starting to focus on larger guest post opportunities now.

8. Branch out to community-based blogging. I believe that BlogFrog and other tools that build a community around my site are going to play a bigger part of my blogging future.  Finding a niche that your site can fill from a community standpoint can only help make your site more “sticky.”

9. Twitter it up. Host a party! Consider hosting a Twitter party one evening. It can be on any topic – a current event, a holiday, or an idea you have from a blog post. Come up with a catchy hashtag for it, advertise it on Twitter and on your blog. People tend to “crash” Twitter parties and this can be great networking for you!

10. Focus on the critical few. A phrase from my career days. Nobody can do it all. Only focus on the things that you enjoy most or that will give you the most bang for your networking buck.

So, so, so anxious to hear from my other bloggy friends who are at this place and struggling with some of these same things!

Writing Task for This Week. You have 3 choices: Pick, Propose or Pay It Forward. Do one, two or all!

 In Pick, choose any topic out of the Idea Bank from last week and write about it.

 In Propose, blog your response to this post. Do you agree? Disagree? Is there a better way to use your  networking time? I want to hear your side.

In Pay It Forward, use your post this week to pay some love forward to one or more smaller bloggers (not your followers!). It’s totally up to you how you do it. Write a tutorial on something you know well. Feature a smaller blogger. Do a bunch of shout-outs. Get creative!

Now, don’t forget to read Empress’ guest post!

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Tina @ Life Without PInk September 26, 2010 at 7:23 am

I love your ideas. I feel the same way. Now that I have been doing this for awhile and have built my blog up a bit I find it HARD to keep up with everything. You have to pick and choose what will help you and recently I decided to start trying to use social media more to connect and network. I do have to find more time to comment {something I know I am slacking on}…its all about having a schedule and sticking to it. Great post! I will make sure this week to participate….again, the days get ahead of me and it gets hard to keep up with everything.

kludgymom September 26, 2010 at 9:18 am

Finding time to comment is my single biggest issue. I just don’t know how to fit it in.

Alexandra September 26, 2010 at 8:07 am

I don’t know how Life Without Pink does it. She does everything, that in my opinion, embodies writing to the next level.

She posts regularly, she keeps a friendly wanna know you tone, she collaborates on memes and themes, she features other bloggers: and her children are smaller than mine.

I have come to make peace with the fact that I am not going to be a big blogger.

BUT I know what I can do: and that is help others to feel they have something to offer, and I RT what I feel others readers would enjoy.

I feature a blog of the week, and I try to visit blogs when I can.

People have suggested themes and memes for me to sponsor, but in honesty: my time wouldn’t allow it. I feel you need to be able to visit and support and I coudn’t.

But, I so agree: people know FFO’s as Gigi’s, and now this HUGE b2sb2b, is all GIGI.

I just need to be 2 persons, or else get no sleep.

I just can’t run something on my own AND visit people who visit me. I can’t.

I have to see that that is my limit.

BUT your advice is points are right on: to someone who wants to know how to reach a level of being known, the tips here are a solid foundation.

Of course, you must always be aware of who has helped you, that is so very important, to me.

WONDERFUL TIPS, GIgi…I can’t see how someone would NOT be successful if they do what you subscribe to here. I just can’t see how dedication to your challenge here wouldn’t grow anyone’s blog to the next level!

kludgymom September 26, 2010 at 9:23 am

I think this is an excellent point: knowing one’s limits is a great tip.You’re much better about visiting and commenting than I am; I am more focused on “creating” stuff. You have to know what works for you, what you’re capable of and comfortable with, and just go with that.

Thank you for the excellent guest post this week and for your insight on this topic. I can’t wait to see the discussion from other bloggers on this, too.

liz September 26, 2010 at 8:18 am

OK, first I need to say that this list puts into words how my (subconscious) opinions on blogging and what needs to be done, have changed over time.

The only thing I would differ with you on is the Blog Frog thing. Now this sounds crazy because I have a big community over there. BUT, if I had known THEN what I know NOW, I NEVER would have made the effort to get my community going. In order to keep it afloat, so to speak, any “blog frog time” I have in my day goes 100% into my community whereas before my community was hopping, my “blog frog time” was spent all over various BF communities.

Does that make sense?

I think I actually benefitted more when I wasn’t tied down to my own community and could diversify my exposure to the types of communities and people in them.

I did a lot of guest posting late spring and over the summer. The last couple times I “guest posted” were more the questionnaire types where a blogger asked me to fill it out and be a feature of theirs. So, I guess I still got my name out there, but it’s been a while since I’ve written an actual post (besides writing on OM) for someone else’s blog.
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kludgymom September 26, 2010 at 9:27 am

I’m glad you commented about BlogFrog because I was hoping you would. It’s interesting what you say. I don’t spend any time on other BlogFrogs but my own but I could see how doing that would help you diversify and gain exposure. but are the other BlogFrogs you would visit the people whose blogs you follow or read anyway? I”m curious.

liz September 26, 2010 at 10:15 am

I know this isn’t a direct answer to your question, but what I would say is that BEFORE I had my community up and running, I would get comments on my blog like, “I’ve been seeing you all over Blog Frog.” Know what I mean?

Also, many people, including myself, say they notice an increase in traffic when they spend more time in BF. But when you have your own community, you need to regularly maintain it, whereas if I didn’t have my own community, I could spend time on Blog Frog when I had the time, but would never be under any sort of “obligation” if I was too busy. Basically, I could make the time to branch out and network whenever I wanted, whereas now I feel like some sort of regular visits to BF are a requirement in my blogging.

liz September 26, 2010 at 8:20 am

Oh, and I just did a few Chicago Dog Awards on Wednesday, so can those count for my shouts? :) I’m actually going to fill out something else for a blogger who asked me to share my experiences with the 30 Day Shred. So that will be my good deed for the week.

kludgymom September 26, 2010 at 9:28 am

Sounds like a plan!!!

Kat September 26, 2010 at 10:37 am

I agree with all of the information you provided in each of the posts. I pretty much took the same route you did. What I didn’t do and still have not done is guest post though.

Twitter is a fairly new thing for me too. I have had an account since I started but I rarely used it. I have been using twitter more in the past couple of months though and had great results with visits and followers.

Thanks for the great posts! It’s good to know I have been heading in the right direction for the 11 months (phew! Sigh of relief!)as well as have some new direction and changes to consider.

Hanan September 26, 2010 at 10:47 am

Some great tips & tools! I have followed a similar “curriculum” with my own blog except the Blog Frog. I think I should start checking in there more often!
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alicia September 26, 2010 at 9:03 pm

Interesting to read through the comments from the bigwigs.

I think you offer great tips and advice here. Indeed a great formula. Although in my opinion it really depends on what your end goals are as to how you go about planning your blogging strategy, for lack of a better term. Which by the way I don’t really have yet.

I agree that after a certain number of followers your focus naturally shifts- you go into survival mode.

The main focal point for me right now is connecting with my readers, which does involve tons of time emailing and commenting. But it is a tricky balance when you are writing daily and participating in other things. But they make it all seem worth it.

My tasty tuesdays meme and wordless wed that I participate in take up a HUGE chunk of my time. I don’t always return every comment, but I always visit every single linkup. I’m not sure how long I will be able to continue that. On average there is about 130 WWs/week.

I am also hosting a project smile party sept 30th that has taken some time writing posts and advertising.

I have a few guest blogging spots coming up, but I fear that they will not live up to expectations. I’m spread too thin.

I sort of agree with Liz about the BF thing. Mine isn’t as successful as hers, but it seems I have very little time left to really give it the attention it requires or deserves. Same with twitter and my fb fan page at the moment. I know that the social networking can work to my advantage but quite honestly I just don’t have a lot of time for it presently. I’m not sure I’m willing to sacrifice the connections to free up the time I would need to be more successful at it.

I visit only a few BF communities and it is time dependent. When I have a minute I’ll pop over and see if there is any topic that interests me or I’ll start a thread. Not often.

I’m not great at retweeting or tweeting period, but I do share favorite finds occasionally and also will give a shout out on my blog if I really like something.

As I said in my recent post, I’m not really sure what I want out of this blogging thing, but I have to admit… the three days I took off this weekend were fabulous. I forgot what it was like to watch tv.

Time management has never been my strength and is proving to be my greatest challenge. Because regardless of what you are focusing on it all takes time! Time away from a life that has a pretty strong gravitational pull at the moment.

Unless you make your blog your full time job and even then, there are seasons of life that demand so much of you that you have little left to give to anything else, let alone your blog. For sanity’s sake it takes a backseat.

I often think of all the bloggy friends that I no longer hear from and although I miss them, I understand that they were not able to give this blog thing what it required because life called. Perhaps there will be another season that they will try it again, but for now they have made life their priority. I’m beginning to understand this more.

Balance is key to happiness in and outside of the blogging realm. I also think that when our cups are empty, we have little left to share and our blogs will reflect that. (Which is what I was actually thinking in response to your “mediocrity in blogging” post.) It is imperative that from time to time we schedule some “me” time. Time to reflect, recharge, regroup…

And I have no idea what Alexandra is talking about. In my eyes she epitomizes exactly what a successful blogger is.

OK, I’m sorry. I’m rambling. I’m sure there was probably a more precise way to say all this. It’s just that I’m in an interesting place right now. My life is full and I was contemplating my blogging direction and purpose before you started this project and it has definitely made me even more introspective.

Natalie September 26, 2010 at 10:06 pm

Wow – fantastic advice all around…except the Blog Frog thing. I don’t know enough about that to comment. I do know that since my blog has grown I only visit there once a week, if that.

But Twitter? Well, I loves me some Twitter! I get a lot of traffic from there, have made some great connections, and it’s fun. The other thing about Twitter is that if I spend some time during the day chatting w/ a reader, I don’t feel as obligated to make sure I visit their blog or respond to their comment. Anybody else feel that way? Or disagree?

One thing I know I’m really good about it spreading the love – I give shoutouts weekly throughout my posts, as well as every Saturday I give shout outs to my favorite posts of the week & any bloggy awards someone has given me. What I need to get better at is doing it for bloggers that I don’t know as well. I also retweet things for people like crazy, and if someone is trying to hit a Twitter milestone (like 100 followers) or a blog milestone (like 100 followers), I tweet it and try to help them out.

But as with everybody else, it’s commenting that gets rough when you get a lot of followers. Sounds like it’s something we all struggle with.
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Melissa {adventuroo} September 29, 2010 at 1:47 pm

Twitter is hands down my favorite. Also, I agree with you that I feel like I interacted with that person so I don’t need to visit their blog.

I’m too getting to the point where it’s tough to respond and visit blogs. I want to carve out a chunk each day to do but I want to spend time writing, tweaking my site, etc too and sometimes I get too caught up in responding/commenting that I neglect things I want to do on my site.
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Jenny, Bloggess September 27, 2010 at 12:37 am

Totally unrelated but…happy birthday!

Melissa {adventuroo} September 29, 2010 at 1:52 pm

These are ALL awesome tips and some I need to work on more than others. I’ll be doing some guest posts soon so I’m excited about that!

One thing I’ve realized is Scott Stratten is right (unmarketing)- he said being in social media and doing a bad job is worse than not being there at all. I’ve tried to keep that in mind as I decide where to extend and promote.

For example, I took the idea of having a FB fan page very seriously because I didn’t just want it to lay there and be a blog feed- I wanted to interact, act questions, post articles. I only got a FB page recently because I felt I wasn’t ready to commit to it.

I do FB and Twitter well and am just starting to Stumble. As far as SM sites, that’s about all I can handle at the moment!
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kludgymom September 29, 2010 at 3:06 pm

yes, I need to give my FB page more attention for sure. It’s the ugly stepchild in my social media work :) I need to follow Stratten also; you’ve quoted him several times and he seems to rock!

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